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writes:I am a big believer in body language reveals peoples true feelings. thing is i have been seeing this guy for a good few months now and he is confusing me. his body language can be distant at times then affectionate. for example when we are in bed he will brush the hair from my face or kiss me on the nose and forehead all signs of affection to me however when we are out he wont hold my hand or becomes distant once i leave his. however when ever we have sex he always keeps eye contact with me which in my past experience guys dont tend to. i dont know whether i am reading too much into this but i would like a guys opinion on this, would u act like this with every girl or just someone u care about? p.s. think he is still possibly seeing other girls as well as me, just a gut feeling Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for ur advice. We been seeing each other for 6 months now and I haven't brought it up because I do really like him which hasn't happened to me in a long while. Been single for ages now n seem to attract guys I dont like or aren't for me apart from him. We very similar in personality interest etc but have always felt he bit of a player. Guess im scared to ask in case it ends. All I think is he would have said by now if he wanted more but for being just casual sex/fun im surprised it has last this long and it's me that arranges when I see him not when he demands
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (8 May 2012):
 I am not a guy but I am quite sure about the answer : If he is only affectionate and warm in the bedroom, don't read too much in his gestures. It's just his lovemaking style. It's a total myth that men only want performance and women want cuddles - total BS. There are quite a few men for whom sex, also casual sex, is a welcome occasion to enjoy tenderness and closeness. As a matter of fact, God bless them !, they are so much nicer to be with than the athletes of sex, just focused on great orgasms. But, it's just ..love for skin-feel, it does not mean any special feelings unless it is consistently backed up by their behaviour out of the bedroom.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (8 May 2012):
 It's the body language when you are outside that counts. Some men don't like public displays of affection but at least he should be missing you in between seeing you, and not just call you when he needs sex. It's been a few months and you haven't talked about your expectations? You are afraid of rocking the boat?
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reader, miss-sarah +, writes (8 May 2012):
i'm sorry to say this, but if you suspect he may be seeing other girls then he probably is,especially as he doesn't show affection in public. The best thing is to talk to him about your worries,you may not get the answers you were hoping for but at least you'll get answers. If indeed he is seeing other girls or it just doesn't work out with you two then remember its not all bad, you can learn from it and move onto another relationship much wiser and stronger. You deserve to be in a relationship that doesn't make you feel paranoid and not knowing whats happening. The main factor is communication. Good Luck
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