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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I have never had a crush before, but recently I've been thinking lot's about this guy I know. It really hurts whenever he talks to other girls.Does love always hurt this bad?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2012): Sometimes, kid. Sometimes.
Love is a funny thing. It can at once make you whole, give you the most intense joy and pleasure life can offer. And it can also give you the most excruciating pain you can scarcely begin to imagine... all without leaving a single mark on our skin.
This is why you treat it with respect and use it carefully.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2012): You have a crush on him, it's your first crush, of course you are going to think you are in love. But you aren't. You are merely infatuated with the thought of him. You're a young teenager, your hormones are raging and you are beginning to see males in a different way. They are starting to look good to you, and you are ignorant when it comes to these things because you have no experience with this kind of stuff. You'll grow out of it and see that you don't really like him as much as it seems; you for sure do not LOVE him. As I said, you are infatuated with the THOUGHT of him, that's why you get jealous when he talks to other girls- because you want his attention. It isn't pain you feel when you see him around other girls, it's jealousy. A lot of teenagers unfortunately don't grow out of that trait and it can be a very bad thing to have in relationships. By this, I mean simply, yes, he talks to other females. But half of the world consists of females, you can't expect him to never associate with a female ever in his life. If you let it get to you, it will tear you apart in the future. Jealousy is normal with raging hormones of young teenagers. You'll probably grow out of it in a few years. Good luck.
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