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36-40,
anonymous
writes:[Moderator's note: the poster's suggested title]My boyfriend and i have had a rough six months. We got into a spat that landed him in jail for three months(warrants). i have been by his side through all of this. well, his mother was sick and fell into a coma; and i bailed him out of jail to see her before she died. i let him have his space while he grieved; but everytime i call him, he was out of town where he claims that his phone doesn't get reception. i tried to talk to him and told him how i felt. it seems like it works until he disappears again. i try not to confront him on cheating, but he volunteers info that i don't even ask for. i am starting not to care anymore. the question is: how can i get him to admit that it over? i have asked him should i leave him alone--he says no and tries to work things out. but again he disappears! what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): Move on because he doesn't like you that much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): I absolutely agree. Stop wasting your time. He wants to bothered with you when its convenient for him. Cut off all ties and move on with your life. You'll find someone who loves you and truely want to be with you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 April 2010):
Leave him. Stop wasting your time trying to get him to admit it's over, and just leave. I'm sure the business with his mother is hurting him, but he's now been to jail, and is disappearing. Stop wasting your time and just leave.
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