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writes:The other day my boyfriend told me he wanted to be single because he feels like he looses a part of himself when he is in a relationship and doesn't like to "answer to anyone" (he is a VERY independent person). He told me that he still cares deeply about me and wants to hang out with me and be my friend, he just cant see himself in a relationship. Well that night I stayed at his house and I woke up in the middle of the night to find him cuddling me and holding my hand. It struck me as odd because I thought he didn't want to be with me like that. It has been three days since we broke up and he has texted and talked to me each day but today he has been ignoring my texts and I don't understand why. I haven't said anything that would make him want to ignore me. I don't know what to do. I think he still wants to be with me but his feelings and thoughts of being in a relationship are stopping him, which would kind of explain why he was cuddling with me in his sleep, deep down he still wants to be with me. Maybe I'm reading too far into it. Please help you guys! What should I do? I really like him and I can tell he really likes me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): Your exboyfriend is playing games. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. Seems like he only wants to be bother when its convenient for him and eventually you'll be back to having sex with him if you're not already with no strings attach. I say forget him and move on with your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): you will have years of heartache ahead of you with your ex and men in the future until you realize that physical affection and or sex have literally nothing to do with wanting to be single or in a relationship. He can cuddle with you until the cows come home and it doesn't mean anything except to you.
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