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male
age
36-40,
*ullen
writes:Hey, im 17 and in sixth form and i've waned to ask this girl out for a while now and when i finally got up the courage to she wasnt at college and it was the day before a 2 week break so i wouldnt see her for 2 weeks. so i sent her a email asking her if she would meet me so i could ask her, and i was wondering if you think that this was the right thing to do or just stupid,Bearing in mind i dont have her number, know where she lives and don't talk to any of her friends.Thanks, all the best :)I DID NOT ASK HER OUT VIA EMAIL... just incase you misunderstood :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (4 April 2009):
if all you did was ask to meet up then thats fine, she could just see it as a mate thing - the start of a friendship, however you didnt say if you gave a reason (such as to ask her out?) if you did then play it cool dont come across as to full on its the worst thing you could do. the ball is not in her court as they say so wait for a response, when (sorry - have to add the if)she replies dont come across to egar, yuve made the first move which is normal for a guy now its the girsl turn. there was nothing wrong in what you did, its a different approach to the first date kinda thing! good on you for having the balls - so many guys back down. good luck xxx
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