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writes: me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now .. have ups and downs .. the usual the thing is he seems to not like lots about me , we usally play this what u like and hate thing and im not saying he is perfect but there is like nothing that makes me tick but he , he always has more to add like i hat ethe way u walk , i hat eur cloths , why dont u dress more -girly- ? , why dint u spoil me , even my kisses he is like i hate short kisses , u're a bad kisser - i donnu if he really meant it but why would he say that if not - , he hates it when i play with his face , when i when i and when i ... seriously i hate that and i know he needs reasuranse all the time like me sayinng good things and comliminting him which i never mind but it hurts when he is like i hate this and this and when i ask him like so what do i actually do right ... all he says is stupid like u wake me up dont u ? why is he with me if he hates so much about me ... ??????? and why does he want to change things about me am i not enough ?? i dont get it is this normal ??
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (4 April 2009):
you dont have a healthy relationship, both of you are equal, you for even playing this 'game' and for him to winding you up. he knows it hurts you yet he continues doing so, seems to me he has issues of his own rather than let it destroy you and the person you are, the qualities you posess i suggest you leave now. when you start to question yoursef (re read your post!) thats when you know its time to leave. I dont believe in changing for a person, they knew you from the start why whould they stick with you if they didnt like what they saw? you know its not normal yet you whistle to his tune, what sort of a 'game' is it? its not at all normal. Your not right together and your missing the important parts of a relationship, your leading to no future so why carry on?
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