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writes:hey guys, i have a girl i love so much. she is muslim and am chirstian so it took a long time for us to get along. i gave her all the time she needed to think about it when i told her i wanted a relationship. she eventually agreed. after almost 2 months of our relationship, i wanted sex and she wouldn't give in. 4 times i have tried to make her understand i won't break her heart but she just won't give in. she is 17 and am 22 and says she is a virgin. i find it difficult to believe becos she had a guy, if not guys be4 me. that's not much of a problem becos i can give her time but in recent times she just keeps giving excuses and won't see me. i call her, she agrees to meet me and eventually does not turn up. when i call again to find ou why, she gives me another date and won't even explain why she did not turn up the first time. the last time did this i got angry and cut off the call before she could say another word and since then i haven't heared from her. that was 2days ago. i feel i should let her be for now until she calls me. but i feel she might think am not being cooperative. what could she be up to? what should i do?
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reader, NITRAM BLUE  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 The difference between your religion and hers is the problem. In Islam, women are conservative because it is what their faith requires. I have read at TIME magazine that if a woman defiles her sexuallity, her family is to exact revenge against her, at least this is true at Iraq. Since you are at Ghana, it might be different.
Since religion is a problem, you being a pork eater and she prefers another menu, have you given a thought of converting to Islam?
If not, then move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): Okay so for one girls really don't like to be asked more than once about sex but its okay. So anyway maybe she has moral values about having sex and maybe she's not ready or think about the age difference maybe she doesn't want to get you in trouble. But if she doesn't call you soon maybe you should call her and apologize for being a jerk and say you just want to see her and just hang out no strings attached.
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