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writes:Hi, I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 4 months and am absolutely in love with her.However, last night I kissed another girl and stayed the night in that girls bed but it wasn't really a one night stand, im feeling attracted to her and its more than just sex i think.any advice on what to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2007): Question: How would you feel if your girlfriend you love so much did that to you?
Personally i think you should tell you gf, if she has any sense she'd get rid of u and find someone who would atleast b faithful and treat her with the respect that she deserves!
I have no sympathy for ppl like you it's all self inflicted!!
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (6 December 2007):
Be careful with the words you use.If you are totally in love with your girlfriend,why did you kiss and end up in someone's else bed? I'm sure this experience has taught you that your love for your girlfriend's not that strong.Just break up with your girl and explore life just like you have been and when you are ready to commit come and tell us you have someone you are totally in love with,when you stop chearing on your partners.
Be careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2007):
1. You CHEATED on your GF. Just say it out loud.
2. Pick one of them to stay with, or else tell them both that you're not in an exclusive relationship with either one of them.
Simple.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (5 December 2007):
 You say you love your girlfried but have feelings for another girl you stayed the night with, well you cant have your cake and eat it so choose, your girlfriend who you say you love but cheated on or a new girl who you have feelings for, eiher way you have to pick you cant have both of them
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reader, Namatjira +, writes (5 December 2007):
It is always a bad thing when one person in a relationship betrays the other. If a relationship is over, you should end it first before getting involved in another. It is not fair to either the previous or next partners.
Not only have you not been fair to your present girlfriend (who you should tell), but what did you tell the girl you cheated with about your situation? Did you tell her you were available? If so then you should tell her also. If on the other hand you told her that you were with someone and she slept with you anyway, what does that tell you about her? In that case it sounds as though you would be as bad as each other and not to be trusted.
The thing about relationships which so many people find out when it is too late, is that trust is almost impossible to rebuild once it has been damaged. Yet a relationship that is full of trust is probably the best thing there is.
Get your head on straight, put your brains away and zip up your pants, and then think carefully what you really want out of life and the kind of relationship you would prefer. After that bit of soul searching the correct course of action ought to be clear.
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (5 December 2007):
 Seems to me that your not all in love with your girlfriend as you thought you were. My advice is to stop being selfish and think about who you want to be with. You must tell your girlfriend what happened between you and that girl. If you have some love for her, you would do her that favor and not hurt her anymore. Maybe this relationship thing isnt for yoou right now. You gotta think about what you really want right now. Do you want to have fun or do you want a relationship? If you want a relationship then you must take your responsibilty as a boyfriend and do whats right by her. If you want to just have fun then you should already know what to do. Think about it now before its to late.
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