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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2004): Trust me when I say that there is nothing to be ashamed of. This is a conversation that you should have with your boyfriend. He will most likely be very glad that a) you told him and b) that you have chosen him to be your first sexual partner.
Good luck... Have fun and be safe!
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reader, EmmzAloha  +, writes (6 August 2008):
Im just the same as you except Im a lot younger, just dont be ashamed of who you are and be honest with him from the start.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2008): I was in two minds wether or not to tell my boyfriend who i have been with for 3 months that i was still a virgin till i read this i thought to myself what have i got to loose (no pun intended)! I told him and he was brilliant he said that it didn't change a thing and thanked me for letting him know! Now were still together and happier then we have ever been. Trust me if he turns his back on you he is not worth it! And he wont!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007): heeey dont worry about it he will understand and if you think he wont then be like ill just kiss you because im on my peirod or make up things why u cant have sex : ) dont worry about a thinh whrigt back soon
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007): i understand how u feel trust me its hasnt been long since i gave it away and i felt stupid cause he knew how to do everything and i was just there thinking "am i doing it right"..... "he knows im a virgin".... what i did was... i told him and i felt so good about it...so my advice to you is tell him it will be better...good luck... lauren
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2007): Read the thread , "cant get over my girlfriends past" , or "cant get over my wifes past" It might give you some advice and maybe you might decide to wait until you get married before you give away your sexuality. If these girls had it would have saved countless heartbreak for these poor guys.
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reader, Keria +, writes (20 April 2007):
Just tell him. He'll get excited by it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2006): Hey if u feel u can trust the guy then tell him! if he really cares it won't matter to him. and if it is a issue for him is he really worth it!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2005): There is nothing to be ashamed of at all that your still a virgin. Actually, that’s awesome. Your b/f would be so happy to hear that your still a virgin because not that many women or men are saving themselves for that long anymore. I think you should tell him, but only if you guys are getting serious in that way and I’m sure he’d be one happy guy to hear that kind of news from someone unless there’s something wrong with him.
A lot of people probably wish they could do what you did by waiting for so long, but not many people can do that. It’s like a gift you have and you should save that for someone special since you saved it this long you know??? If your b/f is that special and you are going to be serious like that with him, I suggest you just tell him and I’m sure he’d help you along the way to make every bit of your first time perfect.
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