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How do you know if it's really true love?

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Question - (26 March 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *elplessgirl writes:

How do you know if it's really true love, or just a thought or image, or being desperate? How do you know the difference?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2009):

if he searches for you everywhere, even when it rains

when he keeps loving you for many years even if you have another boyfriend.

when he is sooo happy to be with you.

He cant live without you

he likes you

your hair

your ears

and your nose

your voice

your everything,

he wants to do everything with you

when he keeps loving you when you hurt him.

then he loves you

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009):

A good sign is when you can see through the faults of the person and he/she seems perfect to you no matter what, or if you are willing to keep that person happy even if it's at your own expense.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009):

you just 'know' when your in love! if you have to ask, your clearly not.

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A male reader, CrazyMind United Kingdom +, writes (26 March 2009):

CrazyMind agony auntCan you live without this person in your life?

If the answer is yes, then my instinct would be to say it's not true love.

Though, if the answer is no, it's not a straight forward "it's true love, then." And, you may think you can't live without someone, try spending a few weeks not talking to them. If you manage it fine, then your thoughts may change.

As 'OtherStarfish' said - you don't ever know, it just is.

There is no given definition for 'True Love'

Sorry I can't really be of any more help.

- Crazy

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009):

you don't ever know - it just is.

normally you can tell there are signs of reciprocation. But often you don't....

if its all one sided then generally its crush\infatuation or similar.

Star.x.

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