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writes:The other week in my class, I started talking to this girl who sat in front of me. Now, I will tell you now that I am NOT the kind of person to "fall" for women at all. I know it makes me sound like an asshole, but I am really the kind of guy who only looks for one night stands. When I talk to an attractive girl for the first time, the only thing on my mind is the potential for a sexual encounter and nothing more. That being said, my class is once a week and I have been talking to this girl for about 2 classes now. She is absolutely gorgeous; straight platinum blonde hair and blue-gray eyes. Not only is this girl incredibly beautiful, but she is the most down-to-earth girl I think I've ever spoken to. So cool, really interesting personality, I really like her a lot. In fact, I think I might be in love for the first time in years, and I've only just met this girl. She is a little bit older than me, and I don't know, something about her has her on my mind ever since we started talking. I think the reason I am not interested in anything more than sex from women is because of my high school girlfriend of 3 years. We were in a completely sour and unhealthy relationship for 3 whole years and both did nothing but cheat on each other, it didn't even make sense. Ever since we broke up, I've avoided commitment. But with this girl I just met I want to stop avoiding it, I'm not even concerned about sex with her anywhere near as much as I want to just hang out with her and grab lunch. Is this love at first sight? I am not a romantic, but I do believe I am in love for the first time, which sounds ridiculous to me to the point that it's actually believable. What should I do?
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (3 September 2011):
Spend as much time with her as possible. When the time is right, tell her about some of the things that you wrote about in your question. You don't have to confess everything all at once. But you do want to be understood, right? Sounds like this may be someone who CAN understand you.
Let this one go, and you may regret this even years from now (I am not kidding, I have some of my own regrets). For the sake of your own happiness, let it play out. Get to know her, understand her, and eventually you may find a relationship that is far preferable to any one night stand you have had.
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