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writes:I am interested in learning more about men! Why do they act certain ways and what you should do about it, like if we got into a fight and he ignored me for 2/3 days, why do they cheat? What do they like in women? Why all of a sudden does he act differently towards me sometimes when we're on the phone and he's with his long time friend? How much space and attention should they get... or anything else you can think of thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 March 2009):
 I guess that the first think you need to learn about men is that we are not all the same. Each individual, male or female, is unique; so don't reduce the problem to "1-2-3" rules. If you want to understand your boyfriend, set yourself to it, and you will. It can also help if you try to wear the other person's shoes and try to see how others see what you do or say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): Hey sistah" You are interested learning about Man..
Just read MARS AND VENUS BOOK.. your question will be answer then.. Good luck.. C.S. here
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (7 March 2009):
 Why we ignore:
This is a complex situation in some cases but the common reason among males is that we tend to not like to be wrong and have a very had time admitting it when we do. Some guys also just don't want to make the first move because they don't want to make things worse, thus they seem to ignore you. This is personally what i do sometimes when there is a touchy situation but i tend to be blunt and tell her but say nothing more.
Why men cheat:
Many reasons here and im only going to scratch the surface. One reason is guys are genetically programmed to cheat basically and want to plant there seed in many diffrent people.
Reason 2 is that a lot guys loose interest sexually after a while.
Reason 3 is that they get made or frustrated about something and believe that they can get back at females by doing this(stupid really).
Reason 4: Some guys are just shallow pigs that do what ever they can to get in your pants(do remember this is coming from a guy I know these things from friends etc)
What me like in wemon: Depends on the guy some like faces,eyes,breasts,butt,stomach,etc. Its personal opinion. Face gets me aroused the most personally.
Why we act different around friends: Because sometimes guys are expected to act more macho or whatever when around their friends otherwise we get harassed or made fun off. so most guys temporarily treat girls different or badly.
The amount of personal space needed varies as well so you got to figure that out for each person separately.
In closing REMEMBER TO STAY AWAY FROM COCKY GUYS, they are bad news and things usually go down hill with relationships with them. feel free to Pm, hope i helped.
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