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writes:Im bi and i've fallen in love with my best friend. He knows i fancy him but im pretty sure he dosent know im in love with him. I cant just go on pretending and im thinking of making a move. What do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): Yeah i think u shud ask him if he wants to go out some time just the 2 of u, but if u think he may feel uncomfortable with something that feels like a date then find some other way.
Also, try to spend more time with him and make sure u do genuinely love him and if u do then maybe let him know subtly.
But it is great that he's fine with u fancying him!
Let us know how it goes!
xx Hope xx
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reader, davie  +, writes (29 February 2008):
If he is gay or bi then sure give it a go but otherwise you are probably best not to try or even tell him as it will probably just make him feel uncomfortable.
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reader, aim  +, writes (27 February 2008):
 i agree with mckenzie. you should first talk with him and ask him if he is honestly straight,gay,bi,or bi-curious. If it is definitely ok with him that you're bi, you should tell him (maybe in time if not now) that you have feelings for him and if there can be something you can expect from his end... or not.
Keep us posted. =)
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reader, mckenzie09 +, writes (27 February 2008):
i have been in this possition before with my current girlfriend...i fancied her like crazy, she didnt like me but as we spent more time together we got really close then one night when i was staying at her house, i told her excactly how i felt and she was fine with it, i would suggest u ask him how he feels toward u and how he feels about u being bi, then ask him is he sure about his sexuality and is he says no ask him if he has experimented with a guy and ask him if he ever would if he says there is deffinatly no chance of him feeling anything for you, i would suggest that you try gay dating sites or meeting some new people at skule, college or work and find out more about there backgrounds i am possative u will find ur match, just give it time... but if i was you i wouldnt just make a move because u could scare him off.
gud luck for the future
x
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reader, maddox08  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 Well if he knows you fancy him and he dosent mind your off to a good start! Ask him out for dinner then drinks. But its important not to get completly smashed you want to remember what he's saying. When having drinks pick apart his brain find out what he likes and what he dislikes, in other words find out what makes him tick.
Happy hunting tiger! Keep me informed how this goes
Always, Auntie Agony
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): Well, you could make a start by asking him out for a drink. Get to know the person and what they like and dislike. sometimes the person that we see from the outside can be totally different once we get to know them. Just be yourself and go for it. But talk to them.
take care
xx
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