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writes:There's this guy I met on the internet. It was kind of a dating site. He is a sweetheart but I am afraid of meeting him in person. I am afraid because my parents are racists and I know they would not be happy with me dating him. He told me he wanted to meet my parents. He is very religious and hasn't slept with anyone before.I am not very religious. I mean I believe in god but I don't go to church every sunday and I've had 4 partners. I don't know if that will be an issue because when I am close to someone I naturally sleep with them and I don't want to take his virginity.He also likes to listen to religious music and do things that are very laid back. I am an laid back person as well but I also like to go out and drink, dance, whatnot. He doesn't do those things.DO you think that's too many objections and I shouldn't try to make things work?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): Could you try being honest with him and see what happens?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (19 March 2009):
 yeah i agree with the person below it's alright your not dating him yet and who knows maybe when you meet you guys won't even feel any spark.
to be honest it's up to you who you can and cannot date not your parents you're an adult now and know what you want and what you don't.
it does seem like a miss match but they do say opposites attract.
but meet him first and see how you guys both feel and see how it goes from there.
But please do be careful and make sure it is a public place should he not turn out to be whom he says he is.
goodluck hun :)
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (19 March 2009):
 it doesnt seem like u guys have much in common..so why chase him..he seems sweet,but u seem like the party girl it can go only if ur welling to change..i wouldnt worry about ur parents cuz if they meet him and get to know him they will love him cuz his religious,virgin,and is respectful and laid back..the only thing u should worry about is urself..are u willing to change a few things in ur life like not sleeping wit him til his ready,being laid back and respectfully religious.?? ask urself
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): Just meet him in person--someplace neutral and public like a coffee shop--and see where it goes from there. You haven't even seen in him real life and don't really know if there is enough attraction to begin any kind of relationship with this guy. Don't stress about race and religion and whatnot because you aren't even DATING him yet!
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (19 March 2009):
Well just do what ever you think is right if u want to meet him then go and do it but if u let ur family and the things u do hold u back then go for it and anyways he probly won't judge u cause guess what no one is perfect!!!! So if I was u honey I would go for it!!!!!
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