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writes:Im 19, ive been seeing this guy who's 23.I met him approx a year ago, met him through one of my friends, there was always that attraction there but nothing happened between us until september, when I agreed to meet up with him before i went off to university and he ended up kissing me.We talk regularly - pretty much every single day atleast.Not much on the phone, but we're always texting each other.I've been 'getting to know' him since mid September.. So its coming up to three months. We're not in a relationship but we've just been seeing how things go between us. As we're both mature, we agreed that we can date/see other people if we want to.I haven't been seeing anyone since I met up with him because I prefer seeing one guy at a time, plus no other guy has grasped my interest since I started university.Anyway, we both agreed to take things slow and just see what happens and go with the flow really.The last time I saw him I was at his place and I ended up wanking him off. Now that's the first sexual thing I've ever done.One thing I forgot to mention is that I'm inexperienced in every possible way. I've never been in a relationship, never had sex, hadn't done anything sexual up until that day. Now when it comes to my body, I know it well. I know what I like and don't like. As i'm 19, i've explored my body for myself and I started masturbating at the age of 16.I'm not the type to just do something if i'm not 100% certain, I wouldn't have sex just because it was the heat of the moment. I would definitely wait and make sure im certain.However, this past week i've been extremely horny. I keep having sexual dreams about him and i've always got sexual thoughts running through my mind, mainly about him. Yesterday we were just talking and he started flirting and i was flirting back and he ended up saying 'I think im capable of getting you quite horny' and when I asked him how he would do so, he asked me if I would allow him to finger me and engage in foreplay only.He knows im a virgin and he understands why i am, and my thoughts on sex. Now, i may be sexually aroused because i'm a virgin and my desires have never been met before. But I actually cannot wait to engage in sexual activites with him. Now that could be because i've just been horny this past week and i've had thoughts about it, but this is the longest i've been seeing someone, he's really nice, I get along with him really well, and we're always joking around together.Now this may be a weird question to ask but, is whatever im going through, normal? I've never been horny like this before, i do get aroused but the arousal soon fizzles out.
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (12 December 2011):
 Normal, but I would see if he'd be okay with actually becoming exclusive before you do anything sexual with him. He might be seeing a bunch of other women as you two had agreed upon it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2011): Most guys between the ages of about 14 and 24 feel this way all the time. Damn near 24 hours a day.
Staying a virgin is not about never feeling horny, it's about having self control.
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (11 December 2011):
 Very normal. I've had strong sexual desires way before I even kissed a guy or found someone I wanted to engage in sexual activities with.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (11 December 2011):
 You're clearly normal.
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