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writes: I am someone who likes to hang around with guys, and I hate it when certain girls and women try to talk and hang out with me. (In fact, there are very few that I like, or can tolerate, because I know too many who are mean to me for no good reason, and make me feel miserable!) I admit that I am a guy's girl, because that is what I grew up around, and the guys I know are more fun and treat me much better than any girl I have known. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2006): I have the same problem- I just cant make friends with other girls. When I do all the ytalk about is clothes, getting drunk and being mean and gossiping and they are rude and self centered. I think it might be the type of girls that are out there, But I prefer guys because I can talk to them about music and film and literature. Most of my friends are guys, and oddly enough they care about me more than any other girl friend that I have had, I can also play music with them and write and talk- I just have better converstaions because they dont resolve around gossip. If I were you be thankful for hte guy friends you have, and just ignore the girls, or respond to their gossip with, well im sorry but im not fond of gossip i find it rude and insecure. Most girls are insecure and thats the only reason why they do it. Keep those things in mind and find more of those genuine guy friends!
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reader, ogga +, writes (23 September 2006):
i guess im the opposite, im a lad and find it easier to get on with girlsbut then again some lads that find it easy to get on with girls i get on with easily too, to me guys just try and act "hard" all of the time and that anoys me so i have alot of girl mates but so what? lol its much better than having to put on some act to a load of lads :)
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reader, Tine  +, writes (22 September 2006):
 being honest i have the same problem as you, id much rather hang out wif fellas than girls, girls just dont appeal to me at all friendship wise. Other girls tend to hate me because i can get on better with guys than they can, so they appear to be jealous and hate me. It does bother me sometimes because to me being with guys and liking their company better doesnt seem such a problem to me.
Girls expect that when another girl would rather the company of males that they fancy them or something like that and sometimes that just isnt the case.
Girls tend to bitch and slag off other girls and thats really all they do with their time and its just not that interesting, and that type of negative company makes us girls question, well what are they saying behind my back and so on. However with guys they dont care about what way we dress and we can feel ourselves with them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2006): I will tell you that I have always hung around all of the guys. The only problem with that is that in the end you are going to wish that you had a girl to talk to. While your best friend can be a guy, they can't always understand what they are going through. So, continue to hang out with the guys, just try not to push all girls away. Some of us aren't that bad.
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 September 2006):
 Sounds like you've got alot of friends and that your happy therefore I don't see a problem.
Who you choose to be friends with is your business and if some people don't like it then they ain't worth being a friend of yours anyway.
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