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I am 14 and I need to know...what is 'fingering'?

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Question - (1 October 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 2 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

im 14... my boyfriend wants to finger me.. im not exactly sure what it means can youu please help mee....?

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A female reader, [email address blocked] United States +, writes (2 October 2007):

[email address blocked] agony auntwell i think that you should not let him finger you bein the fact that you dont even know what it means. but ill tell you anyways.. its when he puts his finger(s) in your vagina.i thought i would answer this question you had, esecially being the fact that im 14 as well. :)

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A female reader, fishdish United States +, writes (2 October 2007):

fishdish agony auntrhythm and blues, just because you have some traumatizing experience or distrust issues, doesn't mean this girl is ill-equipped to handle herself. I too didn't know slang for an improper amount of time because my family did not EDUCATE me. we are here to educate, not judge. now that she knows, she can make her decisions on her own without you panic-attacking on her.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007):

Ah, that's nice another baby looking to give herself away to a boy who will lose respect for about 5 minutes later, within a week the word will spread around your school about you spreading your legs for your so called boyfriend who will quickly dump you and let some other guy have at it....any girl who gives away her body this easily to a silly boy does not value herself enough, and this will become abundantly clear to all the boys in your school and you will be left with nothing but a reputation.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007):

lol nice.

yup basically means he wants to

use his finger(s) to go up ur vagina

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007):

Oh dear.

Exploration of the naughty bits of the opposite sex.

This is the act of him sliding his hand (perhaps) into the top your knickers, then between your legs and slotting his middle finger into your vagina for the purpose of masturbation. (look it up in the dictionary if you don't know what that means). Also known as 'Frigging'. If you return the gesture, that's known as 'Wanking'. If you do it to each other at the same time it's known as 'Mutual Masturbation'.

If in doubt, ask your parents - they'll know all about it and can explain far better than anything you read on here, although it's not rocket science.

Phil

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007):

You have access to the internet & haven't done a google search?? Hmm.

Anyway, here's a couple of websites that should be of help:

http://www.thesexdictionary.com/

http://www.sexinfo101.com/pw_fingeringtechniques.shtml

This should answer any/all of your current & future sex questions.

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (1 October 2007):

He wants to put his finger in your vagina.

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