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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): No you are doing the right thing doing nothing. This girl is not worth you and your mate arguing. Do nothing and make a move when they break up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): Mate get into her! You know life is long and all sorts of things happen people are only human and cant be expected to act like moral compasses all the time. You should always care just a little bit more for yourself than you do for others, and realise what you have to offer the world! Just flirt with the girl and see how she responds. If she is receptive but modest to your affections then you can take it she is interested but reserved about starting something with you because of him. All you need to do is make her realise she has something to gain aswell as something to lose. If you love her as you say you do then you cant be critisized for wanting to share that with her. All you want is to shower her with affection and caring whats wrong with that? Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for everyones help, my mind is now set. Everyone was so nice thanks for that. Cheers
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reader, kenny  +, writes (1 October 2007):
 Have respect that your mate is going out with her and leave it that, unless of course you are not that bothered about losing your friendship. I think on this one you are going to have to keep your feelings to your self & move on. Sooner or later you will meet someone too and chances are you will forget all about your friends partner.
All the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007): She likes him; he likes her & they're happy together... case closed -- you do nothing! Find someone else to like & wish them well.
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reader, Dr D +, writes (1 October 2007):
im sorry to say this but move on, find another girl because if you flirt with your mate's gf and he finds out it wont just be the girl you love that you'll be losing.
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reader, Odders +, writes (1 October 2007):
 Relax. Your best mate sounds like a nice guy so find out if he really wants a proper relationship with her or not. If he wants to stay long term then back off and find another gf. Enjoy your life and wait. If he is not then tell him and he should be OK. But dont risk your friendship for girls, mates are more important.
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