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writes:I'm new to tis gf and bf thingI just got a first girlfriend about a week agoand it was thnx to advice from this site but now i have a problem i get really hard around her a lot of time i have to litterarly stop what im doing and think about something to calm me down. this never happned before she was my girlfriend. im not going to have sex until im married and i never think about sex or anything sexual with her she physically atractive but idk if thats it and im really scared. idk wht she would think if i hugged/kiss her and she felt my wood. i really do lke her. and i hate it bcause i cant be myself aroud her with thisdoes my constant boners have to do that she i my first gf? help plzalso any other tips or thigs i should know about being bf would be great. =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): I am your age too...my boyfriend has the exact same problem. All i have to do is stand near him or look at him and he gets like that. I don't think it would bother your gf...it doesn't bother me at all. Its flattering, i would be more worried if i couldn't turn him on. Don't worry about it, if she really cares bout u she should feel the same way. Its just your age, she probably gets like that when your around you just don't know it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): she'll be more likely flattered and a little embarrased if she did feel your "wood" you shouldnt be too nervous about it, it just depends on how she would respond to that.
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (4 August 2008):
 Ill be more worried if you didnt. But seriously dont worry at this age, you can get an errection over anything to do with girls a hug a look a smell, so enjoy it
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): well for one dont be scared to act ur self (girls get horny too.) but if it helps whn you see her think about somting that u would NEVER want to see. (like ur mom naked) u no and it should turn u off and then u can do wat eva it is u do . but dont be scared to show affection to her. most girls (like me) like to be hold and kissed. it kind makes Some girls feel loved in a way. .. but i know when me n my bf dated he had sum what the same thing and i didnt care i kinda act like i didnt feel ne thing lol but yeah just ALWAYZ be ur self i bet thats y she likes u cuzz of u and not ur um wood.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (3 August 2008):
 I'm with Lexilou. Having the erections is not wrong. It's perhaps something you wouldn't want another person to see. Find a way to avoid that.
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reader, helpfullhannah +, writes (3 August 2008):
First things first; tell her about your problem. Hopefully she will understand and confirm she has no problem/issue with this. It's absalutly nothing to be worried about as this is commen with alot of boys/men. However if she isn't ok with the issue but still chooses to stay with you for you, then speak to your GP for advice and help.
I'm guessing she knows about you not having sexual intercourse up until your marriage so it's unlikely she will think of it as a good thing and use it to her advantage by leading you on.
Remember what I told you about how commen this problem is with plenty of men.
When feeling a want to lean in to hug or kiss your girlfriend and she feels your erection - she may even be flattered. Whatever the outcome.. it's not the end of the world.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (3 August 2008):
 You obviously find her attractive, physically and mentally. My hubbie has this problem with me even after 5 years together I only have to look at him in a certain way or give him a cuddle and he has wood!! I find it quite sweet, he's 37 and cant control it!!! Dont worry too much about it, if you are able to think of things to dampen it down you are controlling it x
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