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*overstoryuk
writes:im in love with a woman who is 30 years older than me and i need to fall out of love with her.i have worked with her for 5 years and have become very close to her, she is married and her husband is like a father to me and always looking out for me. i cant stop thinking about her, i find myself becoming jealous when other men talk to her. she and her husband often invite me around there house for meals etc and she will often wear revealing clothes and i find it hard to hide my feelings...i could never tell her how i feel because i don't want to hurt the friendship or her husband and this is now making feel depressed. how do i fall out of love with her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): its a very hard problem . people cant just fall out of love easly. that i know. but the best thing i can say is try to move on by still being their but not ALL the time that way ur still friend but u have time to be Alone and move on by going out and meeting new people that ccould be right 4 you. dont come out with ur feelings unless u feel that u have too..but i no it would be hard but try as best as u can
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reader, helpfullhannah +, writes (3 August 2008):
If you feel you deffinatly cannot tell this woman your feelings as there is trust issues and is afraid she might spill, then keep it to yourself. Try meeting more women suitable for your age and preferably SINGLE. This can be made easy by the internet(safely), clubs, pubs, bars, nightclubs, sports, speed dating etc..
There is serious danger in losing your relationship as a friend of the family. Think of ways to forget about this women as chances are - you two will never work out. She is most probably happy with her husband and only thinks of you as a friend or co-worker. Let's keep it that way.
Dont risk your friendly relationship with this woman because once things are said, you can never take them back.
Stay happy and good luck for the future.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (3 August 2008):
 You know it would be wrong to ever tell her your feelings as you dont want to break them up or lose either one of them as friends.
The best thing you can do is try and meet some girls of your own age either just as friends or eventually leading to something more. x
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