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writes:Okay so my buddy nick and I are talking like any old Convo, then he brings up our past relationship. We hated each other. I was mean to him but he loved me, when I had a boyfriend. He tried to break us up before but I forgave him. Then he says he loves me. I do flirt with him and he'd call me babe (me and my boyfriend broke up, I'm single) and I didn't mind that but I do not love him!! Drrrr advice please!
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (16 April 2009):
If you dont love him then tell him. Next time rather than hating the one that loves you give him a bit more support! its always hard when the one you want is with another.
Dont lead him on, if you see no future and you know you are flirting then stop flirting and acting annoyed when he gets the wrong impression and asks you out and says he loves you. If hes gettin mixed signals then hell do what he thinks right, so far apart from attempting to break up your past relationship, he hasnt done much wrong. Next time dont give off the wrong vibes and he wont give the wrong response.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (16 April 2009):
 Stop flirting with him. If this is part of your personality it will be hard/difficult to do, but you must, because you are basically giving someone who still loves you mixed signals.
If you can't do this tell him, "Look, even though I flirt with you I don't have the same feelings as you do for me. Sorry if my flirting has lead you on. If you want me to stop I will."
This is a weird situation because he might not even know what he wants. He might think he likes you still flirting with him, but inwardly it might still end up frustrating him. Idk. Just be honest with him, but don't repeat things over and over again since what you have to say will probably hurt him anyways.
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