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writes: Would you believe your husband ,that he still loves you,if he is never touching you,or looking at you nice' ,like before? He does have ED, with no medical causes,as he was checked by his doctor very well. WE are married 22 years now. I heard some mental illness can cause this, but he was checked for depression, he doesn't have the major signs. He sleeps well,eats ok, and working energetically.... And he always been the highly sexual.. Now, he just looks away, but never ever excited. He says ,its not me,but how can I believe him ?What else can I do, than believe him? Leave? Or just take it as a natural marriage boredom? Reply to this Question
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reader, Philosophyzer  +, writes (15 August 2010):
 He might be embarrassed, possibly. If he was diagnosed with ED and there seems to be no definitive reason, maybe he has given up hope. Shower him with love and kisses. Maybe he wants to see that you still have the hots for him. Open the door to intimacy and see if there is anything different and new he might love to try in the bedroom. Maybe he just needs reassurance and spice!
Best of luck! Hope it works! :)
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