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30-35,
*eowmeagan
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now and two months ago he told me he loved me. I was so happy, especially because I am the only girlfriend he's ever told he loved. At first, the few days after he told me, whenever I would say "I love you" he would say "I love you too." But now, whenever I say it, even if it's just me and him in a room, he'll just hold me and kiss me and not say it back unless I ask him to. I know saying I love you is still probably a big thing for him, but could it also be that he's not sure if he loves me anymore?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): Men are different to women ! They cannot always say what they feel ........but the good news is that he is with you and loves to spend time with you . He is not pulling away from you .....and he did initiate how he felt .
Try and relax and enjoy what you have .....as it sounds postive !
Good Luck .
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): Don't worry about weather he says it or not
u should feel it the way he acts ,they say actions
our louder then words, anyone can say things
but there actions are more important,take it easy
and saying I love u too much will lose it's meaning.
Believe me if he doesn't love u,u would know
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reader, Odds +, writes (14 August 2010):
 Men tend to think this way: "Alright, I've made it clear that I love her and that I wasn't just saying it to get into her pants. Now she knows, so I don't have to say anything again unless I stop loving her."
That, and many guys are (rightfully) afriad that if they show too much affection, attachment, or emotion of any sort, their girlfriends will get annoyed and the affection will backfire. Combine that with a generally poor sense of "too much" and most guys just say things as little as possible.
If you want him to say it more, you just have to make it clear that you will not think less of him for emoting once in a while.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): I wouldnt panic if it just him 'saying it' thats stopped. Take notice of how he behaves you and its those things that should reassure you- how he looks at you, squeezes your hand?? maybe but not those exclusively. You know your boyfriend identify your things!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): How does he treat you? That is much more important than him saying that he loves you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): Not all men say it a lot, they have this idea in their head that she knows I love her.
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