A
male
age
36-40,
*amara
writes:I hav been dating this girl for 6yrs nw.I luv her to a fault,more than i luv myself.Lately,she got pregnant 4 me bt had a miscarriage,we've been tryin 2 get another one.unfortunately,i got 2 know that she was havin an affair with her best friend's boyfriend n went to the extent of sleepin with him.Well,she was one who actually confessed 2 me n asked 4 forgiveness.I forgave her n luved her again.Shocking to me,she was stil chartin with this dude.I got angry n told her friend wat she is doing 2 her.Her friend is now spreading her deeds to everyone on earth n she is now embarrassed n shy.sadly,she is now blaming me for the public being told what she did n went to the extent of quiting the relationship.Well,she wanted me to keep it a secret but she was still encouraging this dude so i letted off.U cant believe that i still luv her upon all what she's done.should i let her go?
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (14 May 2012):
 Well first of all you cant trust her (because she cheated and again cheated with this other guy and lied to her own friend)
and she cant trust you because you told her friend.
From what you have said, I dont think you both are compatible and trying to have a baby with all this nonsense going on is not wise.
Goodluck.
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