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writes:I can feel my second marriage is failing again.My husband refused to make love, he doesn't want me touching him and his excuse is being ticklish.He won't discuss things as he always said I want to start arguments.I was badly hurt from my previous marriage and I have so many questions in my mind why,what,where,when unfortunately Im running out of time as im feeling so depress and low again.I caught him watching naked women online chat,sickening.Is it because of my figure?I must admit I put on weight.The only words I knew now is 'I dont know'im really confused.pls help????????
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reader, tux +, writes (24 October 2009):
 I'm hoping your age range is incorrect... 18-21 seems to be young to have a second marriage that is showing signs of failing.. If it is correct, I can see some reasons why it is failing.. you are looking for the wrong type of guys and falling hard too fast for them and not really getting to know them..
But that being said....you need to hold your head up and talk to him about this ticklish business... I was highly and i mean highly ticklish and it never stopped me from having sex... You need to go get some counseling together and see what really is going on... if he won't go, then i'm afraid your relationship is doomed.. Relationships need open communication and sacrifice and compromises.. if he is not as willing as you are for it, then you need to go find someone else who will.. and take time and be patient on it next time if that is the case.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 October 2009):
The post below has this guy right. Read it carefully, then think about what you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): He is a tool, get yourself some counseling so you have the courage to leave this bum.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2009): It sounds like he's emotinally shut down and as a result not communicating with you. He could be depressed, scared and/or feeling too vonerable to have sex with you. Your weight is not likely to be the probelm, as if he was healthy and in love with you it's not going to be an issue.I'd suggest that you two seek some outside council to put some light on the issue. He's got to open up and talk about what's going on.Being ticklish should have just happended, and I assume that while you were dating you have a health sex life.Don't let him tell you that your starting an argument because you want to talk- that's not healthy. If he can't open up, he may have to move back in with his mother so that she can take care of him... it sounds as if that's what he wants... someone to cook, clean and let him surf porn in his room.Good luck.
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