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writes:How should I go about asking my ex when is he going to start spending night at home again:Hello me and my ex are friends be broke up 2 months this Friday well week before last him and his daughter fell out he has been staying with me ever since I am starting to think that it will be 2 weeks which is Wednesday of this week now he knows we cannot live together.I dont mind him staying but it is getting a little old we agreed he could stay on weekends so how do I go about asking him he lives with his oldest daughter and her son they do not get along I say he should get his own place the not knowing is sending me a little crazy
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 October 2011):
 I agree with Cindy.
he's an EX
so you say to him "listen billy-bob this arrangment is going to have to stop. I can give you unti XXX to get your stuff and get out. We need to move on"
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (18 October 2011):
 Just ask him already ! In fact, don't ask- tell him. tell him until what date you are Ok with the arrangement. " I can put you up till the end of this month, or, the end of next month or, whatever date , after which you need to leave, so if I were you I'd start looking for an alternative solution ". Why can't you do that ? It's your home, you don't run an hostel for downtrodden ex -boyfriends, or runaway parents.
What's the worst that can happen ? that he gets offended ? ... So ? Even if ? He is an EX ! Let him be an EX and act as an EX !
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