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writes: Hello i am huffygirl88 many of you might have read my problems some probley havent. My problem now is that i think that some people are obbsested with me i mean someone started a romar that i did something that would make me fell violated! Very violated!!! So now i am pissed at them (excuse my language) and my best friend just txted me and now i know who started it and she also txted me that a lot of people know the romor i am asshamed at the persom and humileated! One more thing my BF just txt me and told me he had nothing to do with it. I beleive him because he is in Greece for spring break. So if you know what i can do to the person besides blackmailing him i will allready do that so if you Caring guy or Aunty Bimbim you might want to respond. Thankyou very much. :) :) :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 April 2010):
Don't do a thing. To respond is to play the same game that they are. All you need to do is deny it. In fairness, it sound like your friends know it's not you anyway. Don't do anything. Don't lower yourself to that level.
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reader, i'm always here +, writes (2 April 2010):
If this rumour is 100% not true then you have nothing to worry about! I know things may seem rough right now, but believe me, they wont be in time soon. This just seems to have been a minor upset that will soon go away. If it is really building up inside then you need to tell a parent or close family member. Even if you will find it extremely embarrasing, it is always best to get it off your chest. NEVER let something build up inside you and not tell anyone what it is bothering you. If left for so long then you could get an illness caused by stress such as IBS (iritable bowel syndrome) which will stay with you forever in a majority of cases. You could maybe even get a mental illness. So if this is truly hurting you, TELL AN ADULT! If someone has been nasty enough to make up a rumour about you then dont start a war and be bitchy and nasty towards them. Maybe they got confused about something you said or did, maybe you had really hurt them in the past, maybe it is a joke. Dont be childish with this. Stay strong
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