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writes:Dear cupids, My partner of 1 1/2 years decided to end our relationship yesterday words cant even begin to express how heartbroken I am. I just don't understand why it ended and when I asked him he said he didn't know either. He keeps saying he feels differently about everything in his life and that its not fair on me. He said he had strong feelings for me but felt he no longer loved me anymore and that he just wanted time to be on his own and that who knows what might happen. It didn't make sense to me as when I came back for the summer from uni the first night we met up everything felt like our relationship was back on track then the following day he seemed awkward and that's when he told me. A part of me wishes he would ring up sometime soon realising what he's lost. He didn't understand why he felt like this about us he just said it was him and that he needed time to be alone. I'm not going to be waiting wishing for what I want but I want hear other similar stories of how people moved on or if they got back together. Its difficult for me to keep interacted as I'm back from uni and most of my friends are scattered around the country. Many thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): Hun you have to be a bit patient with yourself. Its so soon that this has happened and you must allow yourself some time to come to terms with it. A REASONABLE amount of time..then you must go out there put a brave face on and have fun! Soon he will be a fuzzy memory! Where he belongs. Good luck hunny xx
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reader, RyanS +, writes (20 May 2010):
 There's something in males wanting to take a step back to assess things (am saying this as a male in a long term relationship).
Ask him these Qs:
1. Is he stressed with work or some financial pressure?
2. Has he found someone who he feels more attracted to?
3. Was there something in your recent communication that hurt him enough to step away?
Usually work related stress can damage couples. Explore what's happening in his brain and you will feel better about how things will move from here on.
Wishing you happiness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): Don't worry everything happens 4 a reason and things happen when u less expect it.Forget about him he's got a new girlfriend.move on with ur life,if he is urs ,he will come back again
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