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*ittykhaos
writes:So a while ago i posted a question about my best friend (of 7 years) *parker* (it has all the back ground info so maybe it would help to read it) basically its been over 2 months since parker and i last spoke and its really eating away at me. The only way i can think of dealing with this is to sever all ties i have with him, this includes his family. They have been amazing to me but now i feel like i am watching from the sidelines a family i was once part of. The short version is I fell in love with parker and he *apparently* fell in love with me. i lived 300 miles away and he waited 2 years for me to come back and we slept together and i was his first. Then he said he didn't want to be in a relationship i said ok but told him i didn't really understand why. then 2 weeks or so after that he just stopped talking to me with no explanation. I am completely devastated by this i have tried to make contact several times but with no response. I messaged his mum 3/4 days ago and got no reply. Am i doing the right thing by walking away from his family? I can no longer bare to watch them and not be part of it. They post all there pictures up on facebook and i see them all together and i feel really rejected i don't know what else to do. I still love parker and his family and would have happily just gone back to being his best friend.
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reader, kittykhaos +, writes (2 July 2009):
kittykhaos is verified as being by the original poster of the question When i say sever i mean completely no contact. No phone numbers no facebooks no email addresses no home addresses nothing. I have stayed away from his family except random facebook comments and talking to his brother via msn The thing is if parker and i aren't friends i don't want to be part of his family because i will know all about what HE is doing still and i can't bare that.
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reader, Renee okc  +, writes (2 July 2009):
Being that he has done you the way that he has i would advise taking sometime away from his family even though you may love them they are his family first and maybe in a few months you will be able to have closure with him and then be able to reunite with them but for now take care of your emotional needs first.
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