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*alanay1
writes: I need help!How do I go about initiating a kiss with my boyfriend?This will be his first kiss (not mine), and I'm not sure how to kiss him.Like, should I lean in real close, or touch his face or something? Please help! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, The Realist +, writes (15 September 2011):
The way I tend to go for the first kiss is by waiting for some sort of moment where it is appropriate then a touch (the face is a good choice), make eye contact and give it a few seconds so the person understands what is going to happen then go for it. I don't totally agree with catching them off guard but it works for some to just go for it in the middle of a sentence. I will admit I have had some really good kisses in those kinds of moments.
Chances are he has been thinking about it but has been too nervous to go for it himself. It is much easier if you do rather then letting him get all worked up over it. One of my first girlfriends kissed me first out of no where and it was one of the best experiences. I was so happy after that so I am sure he will more than thrilled when you kiss him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2011): Lean in close, so it's not too much of a surprise, and just go for it. If it's his first kiss, he's probably just too awkward/nervous about it to initiate it himself, but that doesn't mean there's any wrong way to go about doing it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2011): I think it would be better if u touch his face as a sign of showing him u always there for him, take it slow dont rush, see how he reacts anyway GOODLUCK
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