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writes:me and my bf have been together for 1 year and some months and he has a flirting problem. I broke up with him because of this whole flirting problem. am i being stupid or did i have legit reason for breaking up with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhis flirting is online and he gets caught. we have a long distance relationship going on because i am in my home state dealing with some issues and he is just on different networking sites flirting and it's been twice where he has given them his phone number. He says he loves me and these girls mean nothing but the reason as to why he still shows them attention and gives them his number is unknown and causing problems. I really live him and want to be with him but is this the right decision or is moving on what I need to do?
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reader, benguela +, writes (16 June 2010):
Well, it depends on what this flirting entails. If he just looks at other women and checks them out, that's normal as all men do it, married, engaged or not. If he flirts in front of you, that could mean two things: 1) he is trying to make you jealous and this is a way for him to catch your attention and bring forth a reaction, or 2) he is a player and is not ready for anything serious with you. If #1 is the case, then he has obvious self-esteem issues. If #2 is the case, then he is not worth your time and you should forget him and move on with your life, before you get too attached. Good luck!
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reader, alyciaohtwo +, writes (16 June 2010):
I wish you would expand a little on the flirting...what kind of flirting is it, does he approach women and openly flirt with him, do women approach him and he flirts back? Either way I do understand it's wrong, but personally once I'm comfortable knowing a man loves me, I don't let a little bit of flirting bother me...some men are naturally flirty, and no it has nothing to do with how much they love you, some men are naturally flirty, and if it bothers you, you need to consider your options because life is too short to spend it with someone whose actions bother you. If you're okay with it, make sure you *clearly* express to him what you consider cheating and what you don't....I told my ex you can flirt with other girls, but as soon as you lay hands on of them, I'm out the door.
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