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writes:where i work is a supermarket, and i often go over there for lunch. For quite some time now i have been seeing this gorgeous girl over there, sometimes walking with her mate, sometimes on her own. We always make eye contact with each other, but the other day i passed her in the aisle and she looked at me and smiled, which made me smile too, it was an awsome feeling. But today i was about to pass her again, i saw her brushing her hair away, i stupidly got nervous and pretended i was looking at some aftershaves, then when i eventually passed her she started going through her phone. I really want to establish contact with her, but what should i do. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (2 November 2011):
 When girls brush their hair away from their face.. it's a flirtatious mood.
just walk up to her and say "hi, I see you often and was wondering if you would like to get a coffee or something?"
see what she says...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 November 2011):
 I agree you just need to up your confidence and talk to her it is the only way to go about it. Smile say hello ask her how she is, ask her what her name is, is she from the area ect. If you see her all the time well then you have the opportunity to take things slow and slowly get the conversation going and get to know her. I know it can be hard to talk to someone for the first time, but as soon as you get it out of the way you will feel so much better for it and you will gain more confidence.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (1 November 2011):
 I would say walk up to her and introduce yourself and and just make small talk at first such as how's your day going and see where she leads the conversation. The worst thing that she can do is become uninterested and it ends there but even then at least you know.
You could even say something like I see you here all the time and don't even know your name and go from there. Chances are she is waiting for you to approach her.
Good luck to you.
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