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*alanay1
writes:Basically, I really need some advice from someone on here.There's this guy I like, and he sorta likes me back , but I need some advice on how I can approach him.We have a somewhat turbulent past, but I know, on gut instinct, that if I can kiss him (we kissed once before, afterwards he admitted he had feelings for me) something will come of it.So can someone please give me some advice on how I can kiss him? Like, how fast should I lean in and such?Thankyou! xx Reply to this Question
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reader, Odds  +, writes (20 January 2011):
 You can build up to it a bit, first, in private. Talk about normal things, but stand a little too close to him, so you're looking up at him, open your eyes really wide, play with your hair just a little, maybe pat his chest if he makes you laugh. Then go for it the way Dirtball said.
If the moment seems right, but you still haven't done everything on that list, go for it anyway and save those moves for later.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011): Dirtball's advice is pretty good.
From a female perspective I would only add:
1. Make sure it's in private. Otherwise we will have doubts that you are doing it to impress your friends or an ex who may be around.
2. If you are going to interrupt us mid-sentence to kiss, make sure it's when the conversation is dragging, we aren't terribly invovled in what we are saying and it's obvious we are waiting for it or nervous, otherwise, we may believe you only want to make out with us to shut us up.
3. Don't ask us if you can kiss us, just do it.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (19 January 2011):
 Just do it. For the surprise kiss, mid sentence works pretty well.
"Hey did you have the notes from that" (KISS) Perferably in private.
I also like the lean in 90% and let them come that last 10%. I got it from the movie Hitch, but I like it none the less.
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