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writes: So me and a friend are talking about messing around. I guess you could call it a friends with benefits thing. (no sex though). and well, i've made out a couple of times but only with one guy. Well my friend (the one that may become a 'friend with benefit') is really experienced. I'm kinda worried that i won't be any good with making out. and i know that there's no really "right" way of doing it. But at the same time, i'd like to know any help tips or fun ways of making it more interesting. Anything at all really... past making out too. I'd just really like to know of some ways to really make him enjoy it. So yeah, anything at all, tips on making out, or just playing around, would be great!thanks in advance!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2008): Most girls can not handle the FWB. It starts off all fun and great, you will catch feelings and then you will be devestated. You will end up feeling dumb b/c you did it to your self. Sex for females is very intimate and emotional, males...sex and emotions are very seperate! If you two are friends stay friends. If you are interested in dating date, once that relationship is built slowly get mroe intimate.
Good Luck!
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reader, masquerade711  +, writes (2 October 2008):
 I have to say, I'm really torn with how to answer this question. Part of me wants to advise against doing the FWB thing, but that's not the question you asked and it's really none of my business. So I'll answer your question. :)
Spicing it up really depends on what you're comfortable with. If you've agreed no sex, make sure you're careful to draw the line there. If you want to change your mind on that, be sure to do it with a clear head (ie. NOT in the middle of fooling around).
While you're making out, make sure you communicate somehow that you're enjoying it and you're into it. Little moans here and there, moving your body with his, running your hands up and down his body...all good things to do. My boyfriend quite enjoys them. :)
If you're feeling particularly brave, you can also just lightly run your fingers along his waistline...just close enough to his "area" to drive him crazy. If he wants you to go further he will most likely move your hand (or maybe even start to touch you there too).
There's not really a "how to" that anyone can give you. Just go with your instinct. You'll probably surprise yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2008): First thing is that this FWB you can not get too serious with.
Most of the times it just you use him and he uses you.
First, Dose he know you not as experienced as he is? If dose, then use it has a way to learn to be great with guy that you want to be with.
If he dosen't he will learn fast, no matter what you do. But like I said, it really dosen't matter because you are both kinda being used for something.
Just be careful. Keep it as 'Friends' It will be hard if you become emotional involved with it and he is not.
Understand that he will be with other at the same time as you.
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