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writes:Just a survey to see what people would do if their significant other cheated.So, I got up the guts to tell my friend her boyfriend cheated on her. He's great at hiding it because he always talks to her, sends her presents, and is planning to go see her over spring break. They have a long distance relationship.So my question is, even if this guy seemed super thoughtful and nice, but he cheated (had sex in this case), would you go back? And how do I make sure she doesnt?
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reader, Faybelline  +, writes (7 October 2008):
 If I'm totally honest, if my bf cheated on me; depending why he did it and the circumstances, then I might possibly consider getting back with him.I think that sometimes relationships need to be worked at to be successful and sometimes, not always, cheating can be forgiven.Clearly you don't think that,in your friend's case, her boyfriend's cheating is forgivable which is fair enough but I don't think there's anything you can do to stop her from going back if she wants to.Maybe it will be the wrong decision and she could get her heart broken but that's a lesson she might have to learn the hard way. All you can do is be there for her and support her; by all means be honest about how you feel about the situation but, if you try to stop her from being with him, you could end up pushing her away and ruining the friendship you have now.
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