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writes:How should I go about resisting my new step sister?My dad recently remarried and he and his new younger wife are building a new home, so they are staying in my guesthouse for privacy, but I've let my new 19 yr old step sister stay in the main house with me.Problem is, she is very attractive, walks around the house in lingerie most of the time, and I think she enjoys teasing me per the things she does. I'm really struggling with what to do per she actually turns me on and I'm getting to the point where I don't know if I can control it anymore.Anyone have any suggestions before I make a mistake?
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reader, Universe Man +, writes (18 November 2010):
Vindication is mine!! :)
"The consequences will ensue." Fuck if that ain't the most obvious thing ever said. Relationships are complicated. There is good and bad to come of everything. Roll with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2010): The consequences will ensue.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I was actually planning on taking the advice of a few of you, and confront her about it, but before I had a chance to do that, I was awakened at night by her giving me oral sex!......and yes, I let her finish.
Next morning, I gave in again, & assisted her in the shower at her request, & more happened from there.
Funny thing is, we've talked about it since, and believe it or not, things are very cool between us, & we're very open to one another now. It was actually more of an icebreaker. Not sure if anything will happen from here, but for now, we are keeping it from our parents.
So "Universe Man" ended up ironically having the best solution after all. Who would have thought?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): An attraction is not surprising. Just look at the situation with your father & her mother. Another guy with half your genes has gotten married to another woman with half her genes. That suggests a fair amount of attraction and compatibilty is possible.
But getting involved with her is liable to burn you in the long run. High risk and there's big lasting problems if anything goes wrong.
I think you need to talk to her about it. You are sharing parents and houses so it's time to stop being polite.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): Next time she's walking aroundb in lingerie, shout 'oi sis put some bloody clothes on for pete's sake' xxx
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (2 November 2010):
 What do you mean , I don't know if I can control it ?
What do you mean, before I make a mistake ?
Do you feel you could physically attack her ? Rape her ? What ??
What do you do when you are on the beach, surrounded by attractive scantily clad women ? What would you do if you were on an Italian or French beach where everybody is topless ?
Would you make a spectacle of yourself, require the intervention of the public force ?
Or simply, would you do what all people do : use self control, and keep your instincts in check like everybody can do.
I am not even sure if this is a real post !, but in case it is, the solution is obvious . Just tell her, your place your rules, you are not used to have people walking around undressed, it bothers you, so would she please put on some clothes.
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reader, Universe Man +, writes (2 November 2010):
You should flirt back, or hook up with her, or bang her. Or ignore her. Whatever feels best to you. You want to know the cure for feeling like you can't stop thinking about her and can't stop looking at her? Bang her. Hang out with her a bunch. Find out what her annoying side is like. Problem solved.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (2 November 2010):
 I just thought I might clarify. Usually I support people who are not related by blood. Step-sisters or ste-brothers are alright to date each other if they find themselves in love but this is not love, this is lust and therein lies the risk of awkwardness. So put your lusts aside because there is no love to be had here and therefore, nothing should be acted on.
I hope that helps.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael +, writes (2 November 2010):
Tell her you are uncomfortable with the way she is behaving around you, walking around in what you say is lingerie. This is not appropriate.
Have some self-control. It is not difficult to set aside your lusts. If you see an attractive woman walk past you when you are out, do you insantly walk up to her and ask for sex? No and why is that? Because you know it is wrong and inappropriate. What difference does it make that an attractive woman is staying with you for the time being? There is no difference. Simply distract yourself when you think lustful thoughts. Embrace that sense of shame because that is going to save you in this case. This is wrong.
I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): One thing to remeber is that your not related by blood, its not so wrong if you want to have a relationship, probably better to have a serious one that a fling though!, but just be ready for some akward moments.
I knew a guy who married his step sister, so like i said its not really wrong or anything.
Failing that, you should tell her to put some damn clothes on when she is walking about the house!!!
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