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writes:i really love my girlfriend weve been together for about a year. but one day a couple months ago i cheated on her. with an ex. i went pretty far. right after it was done annd i went home i immediately cried. ive been crying since they day it happened. which has been a couple months. i really love my girlfriend alot but i cant get over the guilt. i try to tell myslef it was a dream and it didnt happen. keep my girlfriend happy and when im with her it never catches my mind much but when it does it hurt me badly. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 October 2011):
 you're 15 you've been with your gf a year so since you were 14 and you have an ex too...
and you cheated... are you having sex with these girls???
since the guilt is killing you, you need to get it out...
why do you think you cheated?
maybe you are too young to be so tied down?
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reader, darlingilikeyou +, writes (18 October 2011):
you need to tell her.
plain and simple.
imagine if she had cheated on you, wouldn't you like to know?
she deserves to know what you did and how it made you feel. the guilt won't ever stop and it won't until you tell her.
the fact that you're keeping this from her is questioning her trust in you. a relationship cannot continue without trust.
if you really love her, you'll tell her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2011): Does your girlfriend know about this? Because she should. Coming clean would be the best thing to do, because she's entitled to know. It will also help alleviate the guilt; while what you did was a mistake, telling her is all you can really do to address the situation and come to a resolution.
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