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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello! i dated a guy for 3 years on and off. i loved him so much to the point where i was crazy over him and did everything he asked me to do. he broke up with me multiple times. and now we are not together anymore. he didnt contact me for 3 months. i started working 4 months ago and i met someone at work, and we hung out, and got close to each other.. i've been dating him for 3 months now, we do almost everything together, we go to work together, we do our school stuff together... we sleep together (webcam on all night long) we dont have any kind of sexual thing going on with webcam .. never did. he let me meet his mom and his sister and his dog. i fell for him. he is 23 and im 19. he is applying to graduate school, and im barely a sophomore in college. even though we have a lot of difference we somehow fell for each other and wants things to work out between us. i have told him most of my secret that even my ex for 3 years doesnt know about me. i felt that comfortable with him . 3 weeks ago my ex called me and until now he is been telling how he loves me so much and misses me. then now he complains thaat i dont give him time. i told him im busy at work and with my boyfriend .. but he said he wants to work things out because he loves me .. (i use to act like him)I dont know what to do, because i want to tell my boyfriend about this but im scared that he will get mad because he is the jealous type. should i just leave it alone and not talk about it and stop replying to my ex? why do i feel like i still have remorse towards my ex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2012): Just don't answer the calls from your ex or even block him from your phone. Sounds like you are happy with the new one so don't let anything spoil that.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (2 February 2012):
 Yes you should leave it alone, dont mention it to your boyfriend and stop replying to your ex. He is the past, it didnt work out - move on. He only wants you now he knows he cant have you, this is just a game. Cut your ex out of your life once and for all and look to the future with your new man, dont ever look back.
As long as you delete your ex's number, facebook, email address etc and never reply if he contacts you then that is totally fine, you are not doing anything wrong so your boyfriend cant get mad. But if you start replying to him and taking time to talk to him, then you are induldging your ex's games and allowing him to worm his way back into your life.
So delete the ex, dont tell your boyfriend and forget about it - you are happy now and have a man who loves you, your ex is just a silly boy playing games with you.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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