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writes:I just realized that I don't love him ,and I'm pretty sure he knows it ,he see's the signs obviously .I just want him out of my life *period . How can I get rid of him ? He's changed in a good way ,to little to late ,I just want him out ,I told him , but it's like one word comes out one ear and comes out the other . Why is he ignoring this !! I really don't love him anymore I don't want to work things out ,I just want him out of my life !I don't want to go to court ,I just don't want to be physically or romantically involved with him .Somebody said cheat on him and bring the other guy ,it will piss him off soo bad .But I live with him , so it's much more complicated .I just know he wont let go.When there is people around he makes sure to let people know that I am his .I swear I 'm tired .I gave him soo much power in the last 12 years ...He has hurt me in every way you can imagine ,no joke .I'm not happy .I don't care of his improvement .I'm soo tired of this situation . Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (2 February 2012):
 Are you physically chained to the basement floor??
When he's gone, you pack all of your items up, leave the house key on the table, lock the doors, get into you car and drive away. If need be, call a friend or family member to help you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2012): So why don't you move out? You could get away without leaving a forwarding address, change your phone number and ignore any calls from him in the meantime.
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reader, eternallyinfinite +, writes (2 February 2012):
I'm a bit confused. If you don't love him anymore and you want him out of your life, why don't you move out? Or ask him to?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (2 February 2012):
 What stops you from leaving? Why can you not tell him "It is over, and I am moving out"?
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reader, Ciar +, writes (2 February 2012):
 What is stopping you from ending it and moving on? What exactly is it you need him to do?
He can tell you it isn't over while he watches you pack your bags and and he can keep calling after you as you walk out the door.
I don't understand why you're waiting for him to agree that it's over before you leave.
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