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writes: I really like this girl and I've been talking to her (on fb) recently and every time I speak to her I like her even more. I really want to ask her out but I'm too shy and half of the things she says I don't even understand.She uses language that I never use and so I keep having to ask her what she's talking about but she doesn't seem to mind. How should I approach the topic of dating? Should I just ask her right out or ask her during a conversation? Any advice on how and when to ask would be much appeciated and if anyong has any good lines they'd be willing to share I would be so grateful. Thank you x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your help
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2011): Maybe lead up to it by asking if she has a boyfriend. She will then know you are interested and can throw you a bit of bait if she wants!
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reader, Orbiter  +, writes (26 May 2011):
When you're chatting to her and there's a break in the conversation or one of you is about to log off, just casually suggest meeting up somewhere for e.g coffee or shopping (I generally think it's best to meet somewhere where you can talk freely) if she says yes then see how it goes. If you get on really well, ask if she'd like to meet up again. If she does and it continues going well then after a couple of dates, or whenever it feels right, ask her if she'd like to start dating. This is all assuming you can meet up and it's not an online/ldr relationship. If it is then you'll just have to be honest with her. Do whatever you feel most comfortable with (e.g chat or private message). Then perhaps explain that you like her and briefly why - e.g she's funny (with out going over the top about it) and would she be interested in dating.I don't think you need to worry about lines, they're hard to pull off and may feel forced unless you're fairly confident
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