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writes:To the guys. If you dump someone without telling them, how does it make you feel if they respect your not so graceful dumping with grace (not chasing your, not calling or stalking you), and moved on? Guys, what in your opinion makes a lady you dumped classy? I mean, how should a woman behave if she is dumped badly so that she would leave an impression that though she is hurt, she respecets herself and dignity?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): walk away and start to enjoy life,forget about him and find someone who would not dump you in such a way
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (22 July 2010):
 The sad truth is that if a guy dumps you without telling you and just disappearing,...he does not give a damn about you, your feelings, your reactions and the way you took the dumoing.
He'll be probably be very relieved if you don't chase him or stalk him, because he does not want to spend energy in fending you off, but the chances that he is noticing or appreciating your courage , dignity and pride are very small, - he just does not care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010): You should act with pride and dignity after you have been dumped even if you have the urge to do something crazy. Believe me, I have been there and done that. I like what the first poster wrote--CUT OFF ALL CONTACT WITH HIM. Don't allow him to contact you, and by all means, you shouldn't contact him. Depending on how deeply you loved or cared about the guy, it can take sometime for you get over him emotionally.
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reader, karen1989  +, writes (22 July 2010):
 Act like you don't give a shit. Seriously it will drive him nuts,he thinks hes the big man dumping you but your the one who will come out of it laughing.
Good luck :)
Karen.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 July 2010):
 I don't think there is a "classy" way to behave after being dumped. The senisble way is to cut all contact and let him go.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 July 2010):
I've never dumped a woman in a shabby way. I only ever had to dump one woman, and even then it wasn't harsh. I'd say though the best thing you can do is effectively cut him out. Show him nothing. Just go out, have your fun with friends, and if he happens to be there, act as if he's not. This man doesn't exist on your life anymore, and that's the way you should play it.
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