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writes: How do I get him on his own?I dated this boy for a few months (about 2 years ago), but I dumped him for various reasons.. But I've liked him alot since! He'd had a couple of girlfriends since, but it really does not look like hes completely over me. It was really awkward between us, but recently we've been texting and talking more, and meeting up together with our friends where we have talked and laughed with eachother. We get lots of eye contact, like I'll be walking to class and he'll just look at me as I walk past, and we'll have eye contact for about 2-5 seconds! I would talk to him more, we just dont have anything to talk about. He talks about me with our friends, but in a mean way. He'll make a nasty comment about my appearance or my personality, which I think he only does because he knows it gets to me. At school, you can send a Valentine's cupcake to your crush, and I sent one to him.. I thought it be ovbious it was me and far too many people know I like him.. but everyone know's I sent it, and althought I'm denying sending it, I cant lie without going bright red! He was asking my friend if I had sent it, and she said I hadnt, but he was really desperate to know and even got a few others to ask as well.. Could this mean he wanted to know so badly because he likes me back? There is a school Talent Show this weekend, and he's going to be in it, but afterwards we're meeting up with our friends. I want to get him on his own so I can make a move, but I dont know how to get on our own because we'll be with friends and its still a little frosty between us. I really, really like him, and I think he may like me a little but I just need some advice! thanks xx
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reader, OhGetReal  +, writes (15 February 2011):
 Since when is the woman/girl's job to "make a move" on a guy by herding him out of the coral and getting him alone.
You are chasing him, he knows you still like him, he knows it was you who sent the thing and he wanted you to admit it, but you played stupid girl tricks on him.
He is being rude to you and saying mean things about your personality because he has not respect for you.
Why do you want a jerk like that back? I think this horse has left the barn.
If he was interested, he would be chasing you, my lady...so let him.
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reader, TeenGirl101 +, writes (14 February 2011):
You should just straight up ask him if you can talk to him in private, that's the easier way to get him on his own. Once you have him alone, you can tell him how you feel and if he doesn't return the feelings then move on, it's for the best. Good luck! : )
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