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How on earth did she find me on Facebook?! Should I accept her friend request?

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Question - (4 May 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2012)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Be honest men i'd rather your opinion on this from a guys perspective. Or if a girl answers, flip the role around so it's you in my situation with a guy.....

I met this girl out one night near the beginning of university, so were looking at nearly 7 months ago. She and I went back to hers, nothing happened other then a lot of kissing! I respected that she didn't want to have a one night stand, which was hard because she was really really hot and had an amazing body! Anyways, there's more to this then i've said, but i wanted to just state the basic of what happened and how i know the girl. I never spoke to her after that night or saw her again.

Well today I had a friend request on Facebook... from her!! First thought was HOW THE HELL DID SHE FIND ME? Did she intentionally search me, since we only had one friend in common. So of course she must have right?

Also, she saw my profile realised who I was and could have carried on, instead she decided to friend me.. Why would she do this, what would be the point? Do you think I should accept it, I mean should I talk to her. or would you just accept it like most friend requests and carry on?

I want to know if this happened to you, what would you think of the girl?

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A male reader, Glacier Belgium +, writes (10 May 2012):

Well, you guys did some serious kissing on your first date so it's obvious you like each other.

Why wouldn't you accept her? I'd date her again.

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A female reader, cheers Indonesia +, writes (4 May 2012):

cheers agony auntHi.Do you like the girl? If yes,pls respond her on facebook.Now is global world,twit is common.isn't it?

well, it's proven she's a Smart gal. If she likes you,she'll do anything to get your attention. at the same time to judge if you're keen to know her also. interested?Decisions is all yours

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2012):

Haha, I have been in the girls position (sort of). When I started university, I thought this guy on my course was hot. We never spoke but exchanged smiles. I never remembered his name, but somehow remembered from the lecturer calling out the register that it began with M... so (stalkerishly), I went through the entire list of people beginnin with the letter M on our course group on facebook (when it wasnt even certain that he'd be on there!) and found him. I added him, he messaged me and we started dating lol.

Being a stalker pays off sometimes! If you like her, go for it and ask her out on a date. It's probably what she wants :)

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