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writes:Okaay, this is a bit of an odd question, but following this conversation I had with one of my guy friends about how often guys think about sex (7 seconds, or something??) I was wondering: Guys, how often do you think about having sex with girls you actually know, or girls that you like but haven't made a move on yet?And if you're in that stage where you've just met a new girl and you're interested in her, do you think about having sex with her?I know these are quite weird questions and sort of personal, but my friend and I have got opposing opinions on this, and we're trying to find out who is right...Thanks very much, all!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2011): I think all men think about sex whenever they see a slightly attractive female. I always think about sex with people i know and people i dont know. The fact is almost every man thinks about sex every 5 minutes and most dreams are about sex. What about women do they have the same thoughts
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reader, zedd  +, writes (23 June 2011):
Sometimes I fantasize about sex with some good-looking colleagues and stuff, plus when I see attractive girls, sex gets into my mind almost all the time.
I also think most men would approach a woman because they want sex, so I think it's obvious that we imagine the situatuon. Of course, when we got to know each other better, it can turn out that we could also make a good couple or something, but you don't know that yet when you first make a move on her, first it is just flirting and yeah, sex.
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reader, krit  +, writes (23 June 2011):
 Well if that SOMEONE I know is my friend then NEVER or someone Ive just met then could be only if she's too visually appealing because we don't know them so they can't stimulate us mentally.
And if that person is someone which I both know and am attracted to then that no of times could be same as no of stars in the sky. Boys and girls are not that different in terms of needs and desires. To know the answer just ask this same question to yourself first.
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reader, N91 +, writes (23 June 2011):
 Short answer is.....A lot - Probably hundreds of times of day and the slightest thing can set me off.
Especially if there's someone that I'm attracted to at the minute!
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reader, GRIFF TANNEN +, writes (23 June 2011):
 Hmmm odd questions maybe, but pretty easy to answer.
1."sex with girls you actually know"
If I find them attractive, then always!
2."or girls that you like but haven't made a move on yet?"
Sex is the first thing that comes to my mind! I'm always undressing them with my eyes.
3."And if you're in that stage where you've just met a new girl and you're interested in her, do you think about having sex with her?
God yes! absolutely! number 1 priority. What else could I be thinking about, the latest share index???
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (23 June 2011):
 Indeed, it's a weird question and really impossible to answer. Men are generally triggered to think about sex when and if stimulated visually. If we see someone we know, care about or whom we find very attractive, it is likely that some sexual thoughts will occur. In some cases, even the thought or memory of someone will have such effect. How often? Hmmm, anywhere from 10 to 100 times a day, depending upon age, health, activity, relationship situation, amount of stimulus and many other factors.
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