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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been good friends with my boyfriend before we started dating. This are going fairly smoothly but I get annoyed with him when he touches me up when we just have a casual hug or kiss. He also makes personalized dirty jokes, and my opinion, it's a little much. I have 'told him off' about it but it doesn't seem to work after he apologises. Does he disrespect me or am I taking personally? I know we will work well if he stops it, but I don't xamuch to come across as disliking him, cos I love him really. Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (23 June 2011):
 Without knowing exactly what his dirty jokes are about, I'd say it's less that he's disrespecting you and more that this is how he expresses his sexuality. In truth, you really turn him on, yet he needs to realize that simple hugs and kisses are really nice and an embrace shouldn't always come with a grope. Keep at it and show him what you want.
As for the jokes, tell him that you don't like them.
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