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*z.cutiee
writes:Hi I need sum serious help I'm only 23 wit 1 son who's 4 yrs old. I've been wit his father for 4 years ...I wana let go bcuz I found numerous txt msg frm other females about sex,dating,being in his house and other shit...I even caught him in his car wit anotha female...even walk in da club wit a bitch all on him...I'm so confused bcuz I love him so much and eveen til dis day I have flashbaks and dreams of all the cheating ,lies he's dne to me...dnt get me wrong he takes care of our son ,he spends time wit me sometime but we dnt live together he always says he not readi and I'm like damn how long is it guna take ur 28 yrs old...an its goin on 5yrs...,and no job yet still tryna hustle...lol...I need help suggestions please...thanx Reply to this Question
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reader, mz.cutiee +, writes (11 June 2010):
mz.cutiee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx u guys for ur support both of u are absolutely rite ...
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reader, Kama  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 You must leave this person, and I would talk to someone you trust, even a counselor, about why you have stayed with him for this long. it is not normal or healthy to be in a relationship like this - you are being abused, and you need psychological help, at least friendly help, to understand WHY you are letting it happen. It isn't healthy for you to be his doormat. Protect yourself, you deserve better, and so does your child. Guys like this make me sick. Best of luck to you; your feelings are valid you know, they do matter
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 Sorry hun, you are going to have to be strong here... this man will never settle down with so long as he can cheat and know that you will be there waiting.
Tell him its over and that you are moving on with your life, he is still welcome to be part of your childs life but now you are going to start doing things for yourself.
Then follow through with your threats - if you dont follow through he will know that you will be happy with however he treats you.
Honeygirl
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