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writes:Im 16 and my boyfriend Really wants a blowjob. and he's younger than me, he's 14. i dont really wanna do that, just thiking about it makes me gag. everytime he brings it up i tell him im not ready and im not sure ill ever be. but i can see he's sad and dissapointed. and it makes me feel bad so i give in. How do i make it stop? i dont wanna be doing this.
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reader, icaaru  +, writes (15 July 2010):
 oww. i posted without reading your recent post.well that's good. at least for now you already knew that he doesn't really love you. He'd dumped you just because you can't give him what he want! This is all i can say to him: *MOD removed expletive*
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reader, icaaru +, writes (15 July 2010):
We're in the same situation. But i always keep on telling him that 'that' would wait. though he's always babbling it, i don't really give in. besides when i was supposed to do it (coz thinking that i'd do it just once), he stopped me due to his conscience =))
Thats the point, make him feel you don't want what you're doing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Darling;
That Means Alot to me.
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (14 June 2010):
 Well, it's encouraging to hear you didn't back down and do something you didn't want to do. While there are a lot of guys out there just looking for sex, there are just as many girls that would just give in and do the "popular" thing. Many of those girls make posts on here about being pregnant.
This gives us hope that there are still good girls out there like you who won't sacrifice their morals because they are being pressured. :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt Really gets my hopes up that mostly Males commented and helped me through this. not Females. Thats Amazing and truley Does make me smile (:
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reader, Kama  +, writes (11 June 2010):
 Yep, what Timm said is perfect. Now you know what he wanted. You stand up for yourself girl, most boys are pigs. There are some good ones, but many of them are just interested in sex.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (11 June 2010):
Well, I'm sorry this happened but that should show you what kind of a guy he is and what he wanted from your relationship. Wait to do that kind of stuff when it's with somebody who truly loves you and cares about you, not just themselves.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHeey Guys; I told him that i wasnt ready and he needed to Respect that. i told him he needs to love me for who i am or watch me as i go. He dumped me. :( But im alright im not being forced into anything,
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reader, TimmD +, writes (10 June 2010):
Exactly. If he makes you do something you clearly don't want to do, and is okay with making you do that... then he doesn't care about you the same as you do for him.
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reader, Kama +, writes (10 June 2010):
You shouldn't have to do anything you're not ready for. Trust yourself. You are very young. If he doesn't respect you, leave him. No girl should be forced into sex, and a blowjob is sex. Protect yourself, protect yourself, protect yourself.
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reader, HelpMeNinja  +, writes (10 June 2010):
Tell him straight. If he loves you he'll respect that.
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