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writes:I recently moved and broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years who I lived with, and thought about marrying. I've been seeing this guy, but I think it's too soon in my life. How long should I wait to date again? and also I'm 20 should I date someone who is 34?
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (14 August 2008):
 14 years is a pretty big gap, but it's happened before and it will happen again. if you like the man, don't judge the relationship by age. if you were younger i would advise against it, but you are old enough to know who you are and what you can handle.
as for how long you should wait, it took me about a year to fully get over my 2 year relationship. anything that happened before that were unintentional rebound guys. everyone is different though.
i hope i helped a little!
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (14 August 2008):
 Start dating when you feel you are ready to give something in a relationship. A lot of people date and get caught up in messy rebound relationships. Make sure you are over your ex.
Also, if you like the 34 year old, you should give it a chance. Age shouldn't be in the way in getting to know someone. But take your time and take it slow. You are an adult now. Good Luck
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