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Husband slept with gorgeous coworker. Is it unreasonable to ask him to find another job?

Q.   My husband had an affair with a gorgeous female co-worker. He felt guilty and admitted everything to me. I am devastated but would like to work on rebuilding our marriage. Am I being unreasonable for asking him to find another job? They see ea...

A.   8 July 2013: I would suggest you need to stop trying to control what he is doing and just get on with your own life. If he loves you, he will give up that relationship. If he doesn't, he wont. Please though, if it doesn't work out, DO NOT go back!... (read in full...)

My girlfriend of 19 years doesn't ever want to have sex. Should I leave her?

Q.   I met my girlfriend 19 years ago. You might think that's a lot time for a woman to remain a girlfriend, but the primary reason I never married her is that we have not have had a sex life since about Year Two. I have told her several times that I l...

A.   8 July 2013: You need to set an ultimatum and stick to it. Offer her xx months (set your own time limit) and if things haven't improve by then, amicably split up. This is soooo much easier than continuing on and waiting for an explosion to occur with a total ... (read in full...)

How I control my premature ejaculation?

Q.   When my partner and I start to engage in sexual activity, mainly sex, I ejaculate shortly after entering her. Then I lose my erection, leaving both of us feeling unsatisfied. Help!...

A.   10 July 2011: Have a read of: Ian Kerners's, She Comes First, as there are some very good tips on dealing with your problem. It takes time but if you talk with her about it, and find out what she really wants, it will help. Try 'Kegels' exercises to control ... (read in full...)

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