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writes:how do you get over a guy? i fell in 'love' with a teacher after spending a lot of time with him and he was there for me a lot through different things as i was for him ,he told me a lot about his personal life (im not your average 16 year old and i know youve heard that a million times but everybody i meet tells me that i talk like im in my twenties ive been through alot of things and im very mature for my age because of it but unfortunately i still do stupid teenage things like fall for people who are innappropiate) and we became really close he even said that im more to him than just a student that he misses me when im off and that he cares about me. i know he doesnt like me that way and only likes me as a friend im not stupid hes ten years older than me he wouldnt like me like that. he wants to stay in touch with me now ive left school. i would really like to stay in contact with him as i get on really well with him but how do i get over him? its been over 3 months since ive seen him and i still like him. how do all you get over a guy? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you to you both , kyle i think im going to go with option 2 because if i tell him it'll make things awkward between us forever (and i think he already knows on some level i like him ever heard of the saying 'its like the elephant in the room' yeah on some days its like that) whereas if i dont tell him and whenever i get over him i can get back in touch with him and become friends which i doubt i could do if i told him i liked him.
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (11 August 2011):
I say you have two viable options (assuming you want to do the right thing)
1) Tell him how you feel and this is why it would be best not to stay in touch.
2) Don't tell him how you feel and don't stay in touch.
Your heart is trapped. You trapped it in the illusion of this man's affections. Good luck having any sort of real relationship while this is floating around in your head all the time.
It sounds like he really does care about you, and therefore if you take option number one I am sure he will totally understand. Girls get crushes on their teachers all the time, its part of the job. He should be relieved that you never made any advances on him too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2011): there's no easy way to do it, I think for most people it just takes time and eventually something else comes along in your life that distracts you, a new crush or relationship or just anything that suddenly becomes the most important thing in your life...I guess just keep yourself busy and try not to dwell on it.
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